He defo needs a sponsor, I had to drop mine last week because he relapsed after 250 days, and you know what the 1st thing I thought was.. I could go in another town for a night out and just have a drink and not coke. You need a sponsor to ring each today, if you have any problems like using ect.. And it really does work.
He says his mates are his brothers but they won’t be there when he’s 70 year old and ill. It does my head in when people call each other bro.
I’ve literally cut all my mates off and I still struggle. But it’s about limiting every which way possible to get coke.
You have not thrown him to the lions at all don’t beat your self up.
My ex kicked me out in May, I had 2 kids ect.. I could of gone my mums instead in went in to a shared accom. In a room room, shared bathroom n kitchen. I hated it. I think I used 2 or 3 times while in it in 6 month. Which the old me. Would of been on it each weekend being single. I felt like I deserved to be there and it was for me to get my self out. I’ve just got a 2 bed flat now and I’ve done my front room and bedroom up and it’s nice. So this is my goal to do the rest up now.
I needed this wake up call and so does he. He will genuinely just carry on the same at yours.
And thanks for that x