Hi mholes sorry about your brother.it’s not that easy to push for rehab they themselves have to want to. I told my husband he has a problem he’s an addict but because I never see him doing it he denies it. he did stay off for about 6 months that was 6 years ago I gave him the ultimatum that I would leave he promised me. Since then it’s been a secret getting worse over time. Had to tell him straight he needs help. I thought he’d cave admit it. No complete denial spent 3 weeks turning everything being my issue nasty vile comments.he then packed a bag and left me our 16 & 20 yr old. We’ve been together 28years I’ve forgiven so many times this last time I
the way he called me names so vile I can’t forgive him now I’ve got to leave my home we live with his parents they can’t cope with arguing anymore he lost our security to settle debt. He’s messaging me can’t understand why I’m still angry no remorse not one bit sorry still blaming me I’m throwing away28 years.fact he’s left to be with Charlie he’s destroyed our happy family life to have Charlie. It’s going to be the hardest thing I’ve got to do it hurts but that admitting I lost him a while back. I’m going no contact have to it might work ??