What area are you from or him?
Is he apart of C. A and tried meetings?
No matter what, nothing will stop his addiction or ours, only ourselves. I hear in the meetings so many times and me,.. I couldn’t stop for my kids, my family, my job, my wife, my life… Its just grips people
The only thing that we can quit for is ourselves then everything else will fall in to place perfectly. So he needs have to hit his rock bottom. And completely surrender. Which is step 1 of the 12 steps.
I have and keep trying, I’ve had enough of feeling suicidal the next day, the money spent, days lost, things stupidly said to certain people. It turns you into something your not.
Sorry for going on lol.
How do you think you being there is not helping him if you don’t mind me asking?
He needs to connect to other addicts like me and talk each day to them through the meetings.
I can’t remember if he was apart of c.a or not, I’ve spoke to so many on here and forget we’re I am lol. Really sorry.