Yeah I did say about the higher power being anything like me the kids he’s future etc. I do think if he stuck it out it would help him as doing the steps is what he needs he has a lot of emotional trauma he has not dealt with and now the breakdown of our relationship and seeing the kids less surely adds to that hence more using. You’re right he has got to 10 weeks before only coz he lost he’s job so no money as soon as he was paid back to it, I think money is a trigger but he has had cash and not got on it and kept a job for last two months so he has some control but can’t stop it. I know he really loves me we are soulmates sounds soppy I know but this is the only thing that’s got between & we have been through so much and made it out together but this has broken us as it does a lot of people it’s so sad, but we have hope and where there is hope we can’t give up. You’re welcome Dan! Hopefully one day he’s up for the help and I can put you both in touch, i know some kick it alone but i personally think he needs it he has a lot to address. Hopefully me stepping away and meaning it this time helps if not at least for my sanity it sure will. x
