hi FNF – I don’t think so as have been testing and lines are strong negatives. He has been very belittling and I would say resentful of me though – sometimes what pours out of his mouth without taking a breath is unbelievable – I wish I could record it and play it back to him – I think he would be shocked.xx
Hi Riesena – if you want my absolute honest opinion I would leave as you are only 31 and you have so much life ahead of you to enjoy without the constant looking over your shoulder and expecting everything to come crumbling down. This is what happens and like FNF says you have to set your boundaries and stick to them. I so wish I could leave but it is so hard and you are in the same situation as we love them to bits but I am starting to see reality and sometimes I look at him when he is having a go at me and think you have let me down so so many times and I’ve forgiven you and yet you are still behaving like a complete arse. The lack of trust and hurt never goes away – it is still constantly lurking there in your life. If I was your age I would run and never look back. I really hope you are ok xx