I’m the same – I don’t bother to argue anymore either as if I do try to defend myself for something that he says I am doing (which I’m not – I would be the first person to accept it if I was) it doesn’t even register with him. He doesn’t hear my words at all and is stuck with what is in his head and what he thinks is golden. I feel downtrodden and let down constantly. There will come a point that enough is enough I’m sure. Yesterday he said to put the dinner in the oven as he had to do something in the garden and I said it will be ready before you finished. Anyway as it happens I gave it some time and then put it in the oven and when he finally came in he complained it was cold – you can’t win!! Something as pathetic as that is all my fault ….x