it’s so, so hard, we’re stuck between a rock and a hard place… my husband and i have been together since 2003.. married 15 years this July.. we have 2 kids together and he took my older two on, we have two grandkids and a mortgage… there’s sooo much history… ive never been happier… and never been sadder.
the longer you stay together the harder it is to let go.
i wish I’d listened to my gut instinct years ago tbh.
like you many people have looked to us as a lovely couple and the embodiment of true love. it feels like a sham now though and i do have that nagging feeling it will all tumble down one day or another. especially since his obsessive behaviour is coming up to the forefront more often recently.
i hate to sound all doom and gloom but if you can get out before you’re in too deep, i would recommend it.
the more we help them, the more we’re enabling their poor behaviour.
i am learning to lovingly detatch from my husband and his antics.
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