Thanks! I really hope it works out well for you too… Its such a hard call to stay or go.. Especially when you know that they want to change and it sounds like he’s quite vulnerable at the minute. I wouldn’t wish that situation on my worst enemy!
It’s only you who can decide if it’s time to go.. But yea, maybe having a time set in your mind to see if any progress has been made might be a good idea.. And I’d really recommend trying to get him to go to CA, it’s such a supportive group!