It has been full of ups & downs the last 7 months.
From what I know he has been using heavily for the last 6/7 months, before that was a social thing. Which I always disagreed with as I do not use myself.
He has handed over access to his emails and will soon be using an account we can both see for his salary as he needs to go into a DMP to pay of debts. His drug bill is being cleared this week. New phone number next week and a clear out of numbers on his phone. He has not used in 2 weeks and I can see his personality coming through again.
He was at the point this week were the phone bill had not been paid nor the car payments. He was thinking of leaving his job to get one closer if the car had to go back. I really hope this is his rock bottom.
My close family and several friends know, they have been life savers. I know we are not out of the woods yet but I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel.
IF we reach here again soon he will be asked to leave and if he cannot sort himself out we will not be together. I have looked into my finances and can afford to live by myself and because we have been married less than a year I can seek an annulment I think. There will be no further chances and his family will be told and can deal with him then.