It’s absolutely horrific!! I’m the exact same, go to work.. sort the kids, walk the dog… inside I am dying!! He used to have patches where he was a great husband, kind and thoughtful.. that has now disappeared and he is snappy, nasty and really evil with his words.
It’s sad but I would actually take him back and keep going through this same cycle with the hope that one day I will trust him again and he will change. I’m petrified that he will become the person I fell in love with and sort himself out without me. But how can I live like that? Waiting around… would he wait for me if the shoe was on the other foot? I massively doubt it.
Has he ever done anything like this before?? Storm out and demand money? Do you think he will come home?
We absolutely do deserve to be happy, I’m just so sorry you guys are both going through this too xxxx