I did reply but it disappeared so I will just update from today. I have told him that unless he gives up coke altogether he can not come back and let him know that although I won’t stop him seeing the kids he will have to see them through a contact centre to ensure he isn’t using when they are in his care as so far he has proven that he has no issue with doing it in their home or on his way home from work so I don’t really see any alternative this ofcourse has gone down like a lead balloon and he has blocked me from contacting him at all (only after i told him not to contact me unless it was in relation to him having given up cocaine for good) I have now had messages from his sister telling me I’m out of order and there is no need for contact centre etc and she will have them but given that she is happy with his cocaine usage again she doesn’t seem to understand why I won’t allow that and is taking it as a personal insult against her as ofcourse my kids will be I’m her care and that’s all I should consider not whether or not she will be taking them to see someone who is off their nuts at the same time please tell me I’m not over reacting
