Hi Bellapop, so sorry to hear he has done this again, I was hoping things were going well for you guys, I know that horrible sinking feeling and total anxiety all too well every time you find out they’re back on it.
As for the how can I fix this I’ve had that too and have to say I’ve run out of patience with it – so annoying – there is lots of support out there and hopefully he can get sorted. But the main thing is you and the kids are ok and he’s not thinking of that at the moment, sorry, feeling angry on your behalf! Sending hugs xxx