So sorry Navy it is just the worst situation isn’t it when they are with you but not really there, I miss the ‘real’ him I wish I could have him back and a guarantee of no more drugs xx do you think he will get help? I hope you are managing to look after yourself and have someone to talk to??
Hi purpleheart – how are things with you? Hopefully not too stressful at the moment? Mine is still not here, he has had a couple of crazy binges since leaving for over a week at a time non stop, suicidal messages, paranoia etc, it’s been horrendous, currently seems ok and I have said he needs to get help himself and not rely on me to sort things (take him back, take his bank card etc been there before) which isn’t what he wants to hear but seems to be getting used to the idea and I think it’s best for him in the long run although I do still feel really guilty for not letting him come back. We are trying to get him into a detox/rehab thing but there’s a waiting list. He’s saying the right things but I find myself taking everything he says with a pinch of salt now so only time will tell…..depressing isn’t it but have to keep positive for the kids and my own sanity!
Good to hear from you xx