Thank you for replying.
One of the reasons he gave for taking it was being able to keep up with everyone else and having the confidence to socialise and fit in. He actually said he felt peer pressured into doing it!
I hope he gets help because morally taking drugs doesn’t sit right with me and I can’t have a boyfriend who does this.. but my worry is he will just get better at hiding it from me. Which he has done for the last 3 yrs and I was completely clueless. I’ve since found out he has been open to friends about his drug use and when I was confiding in friends and they told me they knew I was shocked. Them assumed I knew too and was ok with it.. because they are accepting of their partners doing drugs occasionally and actually don’t think it’s a problem.
Some made me feel like I was making an issue out of something that I shouldn’t have an issue with! x