I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through this. You and your partner sound like you have had a difficult time. I have now moved my things out of his place and will try and set up on my own somewhere. He is currently out in USA on a work trip. He would have missed the flight, as a few hours earlier he was unconscious after a four day bender. But I STUPIDLY ‘rescued him’. Cleaned him up, put him to bed, got him up and put him on the bus to the airport. He made the flight but upgraded himself to first class (spent £1000 which makes me feel sick), no doubt to get free flowing drinks on the flight. He’s been too drunk to make it into the conference he was going to and has now been sacked. He’s been semi conscious in his hotel room for two days …. I have no idea if he will be able to make it home. The stress is overwhelming. 🙁