Navy, I just wanted to reply to wish you all the very best of luck. I can’t offer advice as I’m in a similar position. I’ve given an ultimatum and suspected he was still using but doing less as not as obvious. It was very clear again this weekend, leaving no room for any doubt. I’m so sad but like you I’m so unhappy in this relationship now I just can’t carry on. There’s no trust, no support, no love… just lies and distrust. I don’t believe a word he says any more and I feel like I’ll always be wondering if he’s had it even if he eventually does quit. I just can’t see a future for us any more and leaving seems more and more appealing by the day.
I just can’t believe we’re in this position. What an awful drug. Absolutely devastating, just tearing everyone and everything apart. I feel so bad for anyone with children going through this. I’m just grateful I only have myself to worry about.
Take care of yourself, you deserve better. X