Sorry to hear you are both going through it still. Sounds very draining as I know.
After seeing mine so unwell I have let him back home on a probation type thing.
He’s not sleeping well after all the years of abuse but I think he has stopped it, but who knows. He said he has as it’s effected his health so much. But I’m worried the gambling will take over again now he’s gone cold turkey. As he used to do the two together.
I’m hoping him spending time with his daughter again will give him perspective as he knows this truly is his last chance to get help. The conditions he has is if he wants to live here he has to show he is actively wanting to get his old self back.
Doctors, therapy and getting a routine back then eventually a job.
It’s his last chance. I’m stronger now being apart and with a little child on my own- so I will help but I will only do that if he helps himself.
So we can only hope! I’ve exhausted all chances now so this is really it for me and then I can say I’ve done all I can.