Thank you for your reply James I was starting to doubt myself and think maybe I am to blame, also thinking if I’m so bad surely he’d be better off without me and we could maybe move on and find other people to make us happy
everything that you said hit home, I’ve been called cold so many times and have had so many sleepless nights I’ve lost count, did you and your ex have children?
I know things need to change as am a shell of the person I used to be, it’s a struggle to leave the house as feel so low, whatever I say or do is wrong, he leaves the house and goes to his family as talks to them not m, so I fo t have a clue what he’s thinking, I’ve got his family saying how much he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me, although his actions don’t show this
the one good thing is he isn’t using but he’s come back so different, I don’t know if it will get easier or how long to let him do what he’s doing.