To the women who want to start a family with an addict – DON’T. It will be the loneliest and most scary time of your life. He won’t be there for you or your child in any capacity. You will be without resources to take care of your baby and yourself. He will most likely cheat on you and be surprisingly cruel. Read these stories. They are all similar stories. They are all real. Even if he quits the drugs, he still will never be the same person that you fell in love with. That person is gone. Release him with love. Grieve for your loss. Save yourself and your future children from this debilitating and life long heartbreak. And move on.
