Hi, I am new to this site and it’s so sad to hear that there are so many of us in such situations. I think what you have done is incredibly brave. My son has an alcohol addiction too, but just won’t admit it. I too have taken him for counselling, psychiatric help, medication, the works! He stops for a while but then it’s just back to the same old story. He too smokes weed saying that this calms him down and then he doesn’t drink. He is a bit younger than your son but I spend most evenings trying to find somewhere cheap enough to rent for him to move out. I just wanted to say you are not alone and sending a hug.
