I really don’t understand it at all, he just seems to think of ways to upset us, the dogs are still here I’m hoping it was just a nasty threat.
he used to let them out in the morning but now just takes pics of the time and fact I’ve not let them out, and if they mess in the house and I haven’t cleaned it (does sound gross but I could literally pop upstairs and my dog will go inside if he can’t see anyone to let him out even if he’s just come in ????♀️) like I’m neglecting them and a bad mum, it’s exhausting as so silly, even his cooking and not tidying up and his rubbish on the side just annoys me as I feel like it’s just disrespectful but not worth saying anything as he knows he’s got to me
the house is on the market as we were going to release some equity, but he said he’s now going to rent it out, I can’t stay as I won’t be able to afford the mortgage, which is true
he had a successful business before drugs but this has now gone so everything is going.
I just need Christmas over and to get out with the children, think it will get worse before it gets better sadly
I hope things are a bit better for you, i think it’s a hard time of year for them so prob has a knock on effect to us all too xx