yes sadfully that is the downfall to being there for them, all the money WE have to pay out, my husband doesnt work due to a back problem which is why i think he finds it hard to stay off it. he is known to his family and a close friend of mine as an addict, but no-one else knows. hes been an addict for 20 years with a few clean years here and there, he went back on it 2years ago after 4years clean, it is the lies i cant cope with and like yourself even when he says he hasnt had anything i dont believe him, he has lied sooo much even silly little things noone else would think anything of it but it plays in my mind.
