Hi Lyn
This is really tough for you and your family so may be you could do with someone to talk to. The Icarus Trust is a charity that supports the friends and families of addicts. We have trained volunteers who are experienced in supporting people going through the things that you are. If you contact us we could put you in touch with one of these ‘Family Friends’ that you could talk to.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps. Good luck!
