Hi
My husband went into a detox facility and i couldn’t believe, how isolating it was for me. All i relied upon was his phone call, when i visited, nobody wanted to speak to me about my husband and when he finished, i collected him at the door. Nobody gave me advice about what to do and what to expect. To be honest the whole experience shows that is there is lots of help for our partners but not us.
It is really strange, so it not just you,it seems to be the norm
Mitch