I’m in a similar place – and I’m sorry your going through this – please please remember it’s easy to feel that it’s us that’s not enough and why don’t they love us enough to stop or to change – that’s not true though – it’s a compulsive pattern of behaviour- they can’t help it to an extent – once they get on coke that’s it – there is no rhyme or reason – I don’t have an answer to solve your issue but know this – you ar enough and his addiction is not a reflection on you
