I've just signed up to the group out of desperation.
My sister/best friend met someone around 18 months ago. ( 10 years younger than her)
He got her into drugs and she is now addicted. To cut a very long story short.... his beaten her, hit her son and beaten her dog.
He son now lives with my other sister and I have her dog.
The last time he beat her he got arrested. His currently in prison ( plead is actually today)
So I found out not only has she been talking to him, sending him money, but she is now back on the drugs.
I'm really really struggling with it all. I've tried everything and I just seemed to be lied too and let down.
I'm 6 months pregnant and all of what's been going on has perfectly me so badly I'm now " depressed" suicidal and have to be seen by a pysciarist.
She doesn't care what effect this is having on anyone and only cares about herself and her boyfriend.
I just can't seem to switch off and it's haunting me on a daily basis... to the point I don't want to live like this anymore.
She has changed so much... if someone was to tell me this was going to happen 2 years ago I would never in a million years believed them. Yet here we are living this daily nightmare.
As many of you, there is so much more going on but that's the just of it.
She is ruining her life, her son's life and everyone else around her and I just can not cope any longer.