Hello, I am completely new to these (or any) forums, so not entirely sure if this is the right thing to do. I have been going round in circles trying to decide what to do about my son and would appreciate some help from others in a similar situation.
Will try not to take too long... before anything else I need to write about my brother. He died last year, (aged 54), alone in a bed and breakfast hotel in London. He had been a long time cannabis and heroin user. He had lived with our mother until her death (stealing money and lieing to her). After she died in 2014 her house was sold and I helped my brother buy a flat, he also had some extra money from Mum to live on. Despite everything I loved him, we kept in touch and I gave him food etc sometimes, never money. We didn't know he sold he flat and was living in a b&b for 3 weeks before he died, no one did.
Now, my son, who is 24 is a heavy Cannabis user.He struggled through school, but with support, passed his GCSE's. He has almost always had a job. We thought his life was finally on track when he met a lovely girl, who didn't use drugs or smoke. They had both lived with us for nearly two years. They moved out in January, then recently split up, he moved home in August.
He has just been diagnosed with ADHD. The (ex)girlfriend also now uses Cannabis