Well I don’t know your husband so couldn’t comment but if you feel something is up, it usually is.
My husband would swear he wasn’t using til he was blue in the face even when I’d confront him with evidence, he made me feel like I was imagining it!
What do you mean by cheating? How did all that come about? All I know is that cocaine makes users incredibly selfish.
Maybe sit down and confront him with your evidence calmly, although I know how annoying this is when they deny any wrong doing.
I think you have to ask yourself if he’s using again are you prepared to stay again. If he only cheated because he was on coke, can you trust that he won’t cheat again? If you aren’t prepared to stay again you have a lot to think about.
It’s incredibly hard and a horrible merry go round. Maybe suggest drug testing strips randomly. Although this is all time consuming and at the worse they will still try to lie there way out of taking them, or in my husbands case he’d do them knowing he’d get caught. I guess that’s how much false confidence it gives them.
It’s an awful situation. Get some help for yourself before you attempt to tackle his issues xx