I’m so confused about my BF behaviour he’s like jackle and Hyde through the night, one minute he’s kind and sharing lovely stories the next he finds my family, work or friends at fault and batters me with nasty words about them.
He can be so cruel sometimes, he’ll say things like about we should go on a nice holiday, get married etc. Then literally two mins later he’s vile saying he’s so close to finishing the relationship and walking away something to do with my family actions which doesn’t impact him or involve him at all.
He withholds affection, he tells me not to talk to him. Then when I leave the room or go to bed he finds me and makes a comment or name calls and walks out.
He’s not violent but he has a vile temper! Which shoots 0-60 in seconds. Screams in my face.
When he’s sober he says I should pay no attention to what he says when he’s drunk.....but he can be so vile that it’s hard not to.
Is this just Alcoholic behaviour or is this abuse?
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