Hi. Im brand new so thanks for having me.
Where the hell do i start!
My gf has a very addictive personality. Codeine every 4 hrs,nurofen every 4 hrs, alcohol binges 2-3 times a week and ive just caught her tonight using cocaine after drinking alcohol,
Of course she says she doesn't have a problem and she can stop anytime. So why the hell doesn't she? We have a 6 yr old child who's now starting to suffer too. I know this isnt the 1st time with coke, i had a fight in the street with a drug dealer a few months ago when I caught her buying it, to which she said "you've brought shame on this family by doing that in front of the neighbours" Im the bread winner in our house so she keeps the place nice and does the school run and shopping etc. My son only has an 83% school attendance record which i knew nothing about until i saw his school report. I remind her when she drinks on a school night that she has to get up in the morning and all i get is "I'll be alright" I leave for work before they get up so im guessing of course that she cant get out of bed and the little one isnt going to say no to a day off school! She got him to lie for her one day when i asked him if he'd had a good day at school knowing full well he hadn't been in. Ive kicked her out a couple of times and she's took him and gone back to her mums. She then plays on my heart strings so i have her back and so the cycle repeats. She's downstairs whilst im in bed writing this in tears because once again ive told her to leave. Its my son who's going to suffer but she's blaming me for splitting the family up. She's refusing to leave this time but i can't do this anymore. Why can't she see what she's doing to us? We've got a few days next week where we're supposed to be going down the coast and he's really excited about it but I cant play happy families anymore with all the lies and deceit. Ive told her to get clean and if she still wants us to be a family come back. What am i going to do?