My youngest son is a coke and weed addict he drinks any alcohol he can and we’ve just found out he is running drugs for a dealer. We knew he had problems but never to this extent. He has mental health problems adhd and lost his job his car and girlfriend. He won’t help himself - I’ve had to throw him out as he’s destroying our life. Up all night sleeps all day. Putting down boundaries and guiding him to access support has been useless
My question is this- how do you if indeed you do- accept them back because I don’t want him home unless he’s clean but I can see that now he has every opportunity to mix with dealers get worse and how will he quit?
This is destroying me i hate who he has become he looks shocking I’ve lost him