: Drugs, alcohol and mental health

Discuss the twin challenges of mental health and substance use

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Cocaine

My husband is awful . Aggressive abusive and degrading I don’t know what to do

replying to Themidgetgem

Can you leave? Contact Women's Aid or one of the other domestic violence charities.

replying to Themidgetgem

To be honest he uses every day , so when on a comedown he’s even worse . He was the nicest man in the world before drugs

replying to Themidgetgem

Im having the same problem . My husband is soo abusive towards me . He sniffs cocaine drinks alcohol every 2nd night . He takes one day break to rest then he starts again. I have no support from me what so ever. He takes no responsibility for the finances or the house or the kids. I feel like im on my own doing everything.

replying to Themidgetgem

I recently have had a miscarriage to my husband and he was not supportive at all . He was soo abusive. He said the most hurtful things to me ever. It broke me down totally. Im now thinking of getting a divorce. Im fed up

replying to Themidgetgem

I just live my own life now . I live like a single woman , he acts single tells me he is single so I choose to focus on myself and my children . Just make you and your kids happy . Leave him to it if that’s what he chooses let him you are stronger than him xxx

replying to Themidgetgem

Thank you . My husband chats to other women and is always telling me he has alot of women that are interested in him that want to marry him so I should respect him and be good to me otherwise he will leave me . Does your husband say things like this too.

replying to Themidgetgem

My husband tells me he can what he wants it’s nothing to do with me . I’ve found him messaging other women , dating sites , sex sites . I have got to the point now I do not sleep with him I won’t let him touch me . He does not have the right to touch you if he cannot treat you right ! If they choose to act single treat them like they are and you act like you are they cannot have there fake and eat it . I’ve told mine sort himself out or don’t bother me again 🤷‍♀️ . They are the addicts they are the weak ones we are strong and let’s face it who would want a cocaine addict xxx

replying to Themidgetgem

I found mine chatting to other women and i kicked him out. He wasn’t even living with me full time. He lives at his mums house more than he did with me. He sniffs cocaine and drinks alcohol usually on a night and sleeps in during the day. Iv been cheated on in the past from my ex husband who i have kids too aswel and he threatens me to leave me like my ex did and scares me that i will be a single parent again then he blocks my number and unblocks it whenever it suits him . Now he has changed his number and calls me from no caller id but has left me unblocked on whats app. He is confusing me. He tells me he doesn’t want me no more.

Then he comes knocking on my door begging me to take him beg and tells me he is sorry etc.

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