So what do I do now? by Kezmundo1Swabs confirmed there was cocaine all over the spare room. When I spoke to my husband about it I explained how much I love him and that I would support him through stopping. Of course he was angry at me for ‘snooping’ and ‘trying to ruin his life’ and the conversation ended with his taking some of his belongings and I’ve not seen him since. I desperately want to call him, text him, plead with him, tell him I hate him, tell him I love him etc etc. But what do I do? What works at getting them to choose their wife, kids, home, dogs, job, everything, over a quick buzz every couple of days?