Boyfriend with cocaine addiction by KindredcoyoteHe got on with his life just fine to be honest. It has to be his choice to get support. You can’t force it I don’t think. I felt exactly the same way you do. It didn’t work when we tried to stay in contact as it was the same lies and distrust. Nothing changed. Please just focus on yourself and your needs for a while. It’s not selfish. It’s taking care of yourself.