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Posts by Kindredcoyote

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23 posts in 7 threads

My cocaine addict partner by

I think he will hold on to that stuff because it’s all he has against you. Don’t expect a normal response from someone that’s not leading a normal life. You won’t get the appreciation for any of it. Did you own your own home before? Have you been to your local council for help with housing? The best thing you can do is what he has said. Don’t go back and focus on yourself. The addition is a disease and he won’t get better until he wants to and gets help and even then it will be really hard.

by JJ1986

2 of 32 posts

Boyfriend's cocaine addiction. by

Please just put yourself first, you’ve not been soft, you’ve been in a manipulative situation and have been trying to make the best of it. You said you have a lot of support from family so even if it’s hard you will have what you need from them. Don’t try to figure him out - which part of him is the real him etc. You know the facts already and that is that cocaine comes first and until he gets real help and wants to stop it always will. Focus on you and the baby and not what he needs or might need or what you want him to do. He will only do what he wants to do. The only thing you can control is what you do. I wish you all the best. Use the support offered through the Icarus Trust.

by Mumtobe

1 of 71 posts

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