Rollercoaster by KJUGosh I read your post, I really feel for you, mine is bad and yes my son threatens to sort out the older one, but then you don't want it to flare up. I spoke to social worker the other day and they said that what normally happens is the victims get fed up with it first before the perpetrator. I am hoping this is not the case and my son sorts his life out! Weed they say is harmless, oh yes (not)! It affects the person and family like all drugs and alcohol. They will look back on this one day and really regret their decisions. It is damaging to all involved and expensive too! I have tried various avenues for help and unless he refers himself they can do nothing!