Healing and moving forward by LedaI was just thinking about all those times I saw a brilliant future for us, the good person he "really" is, what we could be and experiences that are positive. And I just thought about it. He flips it over. Even now he is flipping it over. He makes it into- I am controlling him. I suppose I should get used to the fact that my thoughts are just fantasy. You can't change someone- they have to change themselves.