Advice please!!! by LucyyyyThank you, im listening to it now, I think I'm just conflicted because he will tell everybody else how much having a family has changed his life and how much he's wanted this but he's not acting like it at all and I feel like he's just telling me what I want to hear. I feel like if I were to leave I would be abandoning him and because I don't have family around me and I feel like I'd be completely on my own it's just scary. He will drink and take drugs every weekend without fail and smokes a lot of weed every day like the first thing he does when he wakes up is have a joint and he goes to work with weed. He's told me today all he wanted was a happy home for our daughter but that can't happen, obviously that's all I want to but I feel like he isn't an active part of the family. When social services get involved what does the process look like? Would he get in trouble with the police or anything?