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Posts by Marebear36

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my brother and mother its insane by

family a mess I am an addict my brother also is mom probably in some ways not the harder stuff. My brother does nothing to help the household. I care for both parents full time they are 78 Dad is completely bed bound diapers and all. My mother gives him my brother money Every Day first thing in the am and throughout the day to go and get his ( hard Stuff) stuff. I use too unfortunately try not to a lot but fail a lot. If I ask her to give me money if I don't have it she throws a fit and is just mean as heck, With him its just given softly gently and almost on schedule Literally and seriously. I help them mostly because I want to but when I ask for things and get screamed at it really messes me up even worse .... i hope someone understands and that this make since. I have been in and out of recovery over the years had some really good time in fact before my daughter passed, but since living here now knowing the situation I just briefly described, no I have not pulled more than a few weeks at a time together. I could use whatever yall have to say. Im thick skinned so don't hold back, lol. Am I wrong for watching him do nothing and get money you use all day from her, for being upset pretty often and trying to get her to see how crazy it is. She really need me to help with dad and now help her too I feel so stuck and alone in all of this with them. I am blessed in being able to be here but if I'm falling in the midst of all the craziness I'm not all that much help at times. Thanks for being here

family a mess by

I am an addict my brother also is mom probably in some ways not the harder stuff. My brother does nothing to help the household. I care for both parents full time they are 78 Dad is completely bed bound diapers and all. My mother gives him money Every Day first thing in the am and throughout the day to go and get his stuff. I use too unfortunately try not to a lot but fail a lot. If I ask her to give me money if I don't have it she throws a fit and is just mean as heck, With him its just given softly gently and almost on schedule Literally and seriously. I help them mostly because I want to but when I ask for things and get screamed at it really messes me up even worse .... i hope someone understands and that this make since. I have been in and out of recovery over the years had some really good time in fact before my daughter passed, but since living here now knowing the situation I just briefly described, no I have not pulled more than a few weeks at a time together. I could use whatever yall have to say. Im thick skinned so don't hold back, lol. Thanks for being here

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