Lost husband to alcohol by MaryPoppins23I am so sorry to hear what you are going through and can relate so much to what you have described. My only advice to you is to look after you. Trust me, if he has refused all offers of help there is nothing you can do. He has to want to do it for you to stand a fighting chance. My husband did go through the motions of getting outside help but he never truly believed he had a problem. He was due to go into rehab but decided to have one ladt hurrah which effectively was the beginning of the end. Having been through this journey I know how hard it is, and how bad it makes you feel. I wish you every luck and I do hope you get him the help he needs.