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Posts by Popsxx

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Boyfriend's cocaine addiction. by

Hi everyone hope you are well. I have had my baby and he's 7 weeks old he's perfect! The dad on the other hand hasn't changed. He's in and out of baby's life when it suits him, messing around with plans swapping and changing days, times ect so I've told him I don't want him to have anything to do with baby any more it's hurting me seeing him in and out of his life like that and I've also told him I don't want him near baby whilst taking coke (which is at least once a week). He's gone worse since my original post doing things to try and spite me ane being horrible to me it's like it's a big game to him and he gets some sort of thrill from it he's really not a nice person when he's like this. I give him the benefit of the doubt when baby was born and for the first 2 weeks he was the perfect partner and dad but it didn't last long. He went straight back into his old ways coming in drunk and off it on cocaine at 1 o'clock in the morning, turning his phone off, using excuses not to stay with me and the baby and now 7 weeks later he's turned against me not only taking the drug but being awful to me. I know everyone has said I should of left him whilst pregnant ect but it's easier said then done. He's my first love and I still love him even though he's put me through shit. I'm so hurt this isn't the life I dreamt of. He's now not seen the baby for over a week and we was meant to meet up today for a meal and to talk but once again he's let us down and he's in the pub. I feel like a mug all the time I'm always the one making the effort it's like he doesn't care about us but when I ask he says he does. I just don't know what to do anymore

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