Cocaine husband I need some advice :-( by cally1001I just want to say how helpful this thread has been. I don't feel very able to articulate my story but so much is my life,the blaming,big money withdrawal s,the sleeping for days I'll, missing work, drunk booze bottles by the sofa, . Loss of future hopes,losing weight ,hair loss. Wild accusations that I'm having affairs, Crying every day,every pocket I find full of my tissues from tesrs.There really does seem to be so many of us out there . I live with it but I think I am reaching a point of detachment for self preservation . It's all so exhausting.