My son is 30 he steals from us porns our stuff asks for money daily. Iv paid debts for him which I pay back to bank monthly I’m struggling to keep it together he lies all the time it never ends I want to walk away but at the moment I can’t. I really wish I wasn’t his mum sometimes and that hurts me my other kids are all fine and fed up with it all they all left home so they get away from it as a mum we can’t can we. It must be so hard for you but I understand why no one can understand if they not living it no matter what they say. I cry daily just want it to stop pain never goes away or fear of what’s to come. I really understand where ur coming from what upsets me is no one can help us really pls don’t fall shame we are not to blame we do our best