I agree totally the help is so flimsy for us and them unless u can go private. You have to wait so long to get councerling. People forget no matter what they do they are still our son who we love no matter what but we suffer so much. My husband is his step father and can emotionally detach from it throw him out is his answer I never like you stop worrying don’t want him with me but don’t want him not with me if u understand what I meen we live in a small town so would always see him around .we not at stage u at but he sleeping on floors in houses I wouldn’t stay in my husband dosnt seem to care. It tears us apart slowly. People have no idea I’m a nurse in a gp practice so see it a lot. Do your like me hate to hear people talk badly about him it hurts to hear it. Sorry if I’m babbling