Hi Kelly
Thank you for posting. I’m so sorry that things are so tough for you because of your partner’s drinking. I know it’s a really hard thing to deal with and maybe you would like to talk with someone who would understand what you are going through.
I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust. We provide support for friends and family members of people with addictive behaviours. If you contact us we could put you in touch with one of trained and experienced people who might be able to offer you some help.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps. Good luck!
The Icarus Trust