Hi 1209
Thank you for posting. I know how very hard this is for you.
Just to let you know that a charity called The Icarus Trust is there to support people like yourself who are being affected by a family member’s addiction. If you think it would be helpful to talk with one of our experienced, trained people please get in touch.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best. I hope this helps.