Hi Chelle,
Really sorry to read your sad story. I am so glad that you have a supportive network around you and your daughter but if you needed anyone else to talk to please contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people like you who are living with the addictive behaviour of a family membe rand have a team of trained and experienced people who would listen to you.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps. Good luck.