Hi I’m 51 and my son is also 29 he spends quite a lot of time in hospital he struggles with his chest and breathing he doesn’t look after himself or use his medication I haven’t heard from him yet today but the call will come it’s terrible to hear how upset and desperate he can sound he says you don’t understand how I feel etc but yes we all do Don t we ?I feel his misery but have tried and tried as you probably have and no your right you can’t switch off he’s on my mind constantly it wakes me up at night panicking and having palpitations. So your not on your own but I don’t know what we can do ?my son is a lovely caring and emotional young man but he is ruining his life he’s lost most precious things like closeness with his family as he shuts them out and owns nothing but the clothes on his back as when we replace them he looses them I have some socks in my bag for him at the mo but haven’t seen him.??? I’m at a loss
