Give him Tough love! I was lied to for over a year by him and his mum about his addiction. I was always the one giving him tough love while his mum bailed him out.. it made it worse. I now do it my own way. Over 3 weeks ago he relapsed and gave his mum an excuse as to why he needed the money and she gave it to him because she thought he was going to get hurt. I told her not to how is someone suppose to stop if they know someone is going to always bail them out? They aren’t. It’s been 2 weeks now and he’s not touched it. Doesn’t sound a lot I know but being an addict for over 10 years and doing it every week I’m very proud of him.
There is nothing wrong with tough love because you’re doing it for him and his life. X