Hi ya . Firstly I’d like to say how hard this must be for you . Your husband is in denial. You are no longer turning a blind eye . Well done you . My husband is an addict so I understand the emotional ties .
Maybe the best way is to tell him straight . Tell him you and everyone else knows what he is . Explain to him the ramifications from a health point of you . Do not forget to tell him you love him . The reason he hides his use is .. if he was proud he would do it openly .
Tell his family . You are enabling him to continue whilst keeping this big secret . Explain to them succinctly if they want to help you would welcome any support .
Leave leaflets on cocain use , it’s affects and helpline numbers in his secret place .
I wish I had this support my in-laws live in the Middle East . I am on my own .,
You have it pretty much sewn up . Your a smart cookie . You can do this .
Take care