I get angry too. No children are involved, we wanted them but its too late now. I try not to take on too much of his responsibilities but some things he refuses to do. I call a friend nearly every night and she really helps me to cope. Because of the anxiety I can only go to work, my mums and the local shop. I keep away from people as I don’t want to keep making excuses as to why he’s not about, I tell them he’s busy at work.
I suppose we really don’t know the implications until we are faced with it ourselves. It is so sad for all involved.